Lexington MA Psychotherapist

What is psychotherapy?

Often referred to simply as "therapy" or "counseling," psychotherapy is the process of talking with a mental health professional to obtain relief from mental distress. It might seem a bit daunting to reach out to someone you don't know to talk about what's on your mind — many people are nervous about trying therapy, and some see it as a sign of weakness to need a professional's help during a particularly trying time. But at certain points in life, it can be exactly the right thing to do. For those who really give it a chance, it is usually rewarding.

These are typically in-office sessions, seated face-to-face, meeting once or twice per week. Initially, just talking about what's going on to someone who listens closely and attentively often leads to an immediate sense of relief. Over time, that conversation deepens into an alliance — one that helps you better understand the source of your problems, develop insight, and find a path toward real and lasting change.

I practice psychodynamic psychotherapy, where the governing principle in any session is to explore as fully as possible what is on your mind. Some parts of your life — past or present — may be harder to talk about than others. It becomes important for us to join together to overcome those obstacles, to clear a path toward the feelings and thoughts that are personally and individually yours. This is the work of self-understanding that is vital to good mental health: it permits us to live more fully the life we want, to be closer to the people we love, to seek work that is meaningful, and to find genuine pleasure in stepping away from the demands of the world.

Therapy requires motivation, discipline, and sustained effort. Those who commit to it will have varying degrees of success depending on the severity of their concerns, their capacity for introspection, and their willingness to apply what is learned in the office to the world outside of it. You should also be aware that the process may bring up unpleasant memories, feelings, or sensations — guilt, anxiety, anger, sadness — particularly in its earlier phases. If those feelings begin to affect your current relationships, it is important to address that directly in session.

What to expect during therapy

At your initial visit, I will conduct a thorough review of your current concerns and your background. By the end of that visit I will offer some preliminary impressions, and we will discuss your treatment options together. Sometimes therapy alone will suffice. Often, a combination of therapy and medication produces the best result — if that's relevant to your situation, you can read more about my approach to medication management above.

One of the most important factors in any therapeutic relationship is the goodness of fit between therapist and patient. The initial visit is your opportunity to determine whether I feel like the right match for you. If I'm not well suited to your needs, I'm happy to provide referrals to other mental health professionals.


Frequently asked questions about psychotherapy

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